Soul Mate

I've heard so many love stories from so many different cultures. Some stories sound more practical, some stories sound very idealistic. My question is, is there such a thing as a match made in heaven? Your other half that is born just for you, your soul mate. If there is such a thing, when will someone know that he/she is the soul mate?

There has been numerous occasions where a person thinks the partner is his/her soul mate but they eventually break up in very bitter manners. Makes me think there is no such thing as a soul mate. Soul mate is a term created to ease the suffering of the people who are lonely or the people who just got off a massive break up. "She is just now meant for you." or "There is a guy just born for you and waiting for you" are pretty good consoling words.

To me I think compatibility is about how well you can communicate with your partner, you don't have to have all the similar interests(some will be a big advantage though). The big thing is for your partner to be able to see what you're talking about and how you cannot take your eyes of her beauty no matter how long you've been with her. The manner of attraction will change eventually from the time you first met them. The personality and the care given to you will over weight the beauty you see in her eventually and this is the important part, this is what you should look out for. If all you see in him/her is the look, you'll go through a hard time later on.

This is the reason why I'm a big hater to the arranged marriages in the olden cultures. This method is as a lot of other things in the past, pro male (not all arranged marriages have turned out bad though). Things have changed now, the women has a say and are a lot more independent then they were in the olden times. In those days, when the guy gets bored with the woman (when her looks are not appealing to him anymore), he just goes to the next one he can lay his hands on. The woman will have no say and will have to accept what the husband does.

What a bunch of crap, to all you idiots out there who's reading this and who's having an affair outside your marriage, you're a bunch of selfish apes. Go back and hang in trees without any clothes on like the animals you are.

People who are still looking for the right one for yourself, please choose well. What happens with a broken relationship doesn't only bring bad things into your life but also to the lives of your children (if you happen to have any). Soul Mates are the people who you choose who are right for you and this doesn't just come like that. There must be an effort put in just like any other thing in life.

Use your common sense, the creator has given if more to man then any other living creature but man is not making use of it. Everyone wants good things, don't be selfish, care for all. When you do all this you won't only deserve a Soul Mate but you will be running to get one. ^_^

Peace out