As it Unfolds (Part 2)

As every relationship goes further, problems are inevitable and
this relationship was no different. The first time I got agitated
was when a so called friend J met my girlfriend after I got her
into the same guild as me. He started getting really close to my
gf when i wasn't around. At first i didn't think much of it, trust is
a key component of love, without trust there is only bound to be
misery.

As J started getting closer to my gf, i realized something was
really wrong, he wasn't acting like a normal friend at all. At this
moment i confronted my gf and told her that J is thinking of
something more then just friendship and she have to be aware
of it. My gf thought i got him misunderstood, so i confronted
J myself. He tells me, he likes my gf and he says sorry....

I was like WTF man..... I was so pissed at him and i don't know
if what i said after that was right. I told him, i trust my gf and
let the best man win. I told him you can try as much as you want
but i trust my gf and nothing is gonna take her away from me.
This triggered him to venture into his ambitions with more
freedom. I wish i hadn't said that to him, it's not because i was
scared my gf might leave me but to save my gf from unnecessary
problems.

As things got more serious, J said things he shouldn't have and
manipulated words i said and reported it to my gf. Problems
started between me and my gf. Such cheap skate tricks with
no dignity what so ever. From that point on, I was so angry with
J i'd have broken his face if i ever met him in real. Meanwhile,
my gf was having problems that i wasn't aware off.

She was developing a long dormant sickness she was carrying
which might have been something i caused also. She has had
leukemia when she was younger and the cancer was beginning
manifest again without us realizing. She staying awake for me
on odd hours because of our massive time difference may
have caused it to reappear.

By this time J's tricks were uncovered by me and put forth to
my gf with some proof. My girlfriends finally saw how J was.
Less then a fortnight after he was sidelined by my gf he was
after another girl >.<" So much for "i really love her i had to
take a chance although she's your gf". Now when i think of him
I just get disgusted.

Finally the first hurdle of out relationship was over and done with.
But not long after the second one will arise...