What is it with us? Why can't we just appreciate what we have? Many of us say, "no dude I'm not like that" (including me) but you know what? I'm just a hypocrite. We're not always in control of what we're doing, as soon as I relax and not keep my focus, I sway in so many directions that only god know how many direction there are. This is where the appreciation of what I have goes out the window and hit the highway.
Than when I open my eyes, I realize I'm alone on this long long highway and I've lost the things that are important to me. I have to be thankful for one thing, I've never gone so far from those things and I always remember the way back. Then I tell my self, "You're a fool Kanaghavel" you just wasted 20 miles on your mileage and life is not like a car, you can't refuel it. Only god know how many miles I am given.
People get comfortable with what they have and don't really think of the ones they love sometimes. When we first meet our partners, everything they say is a revelation and everything is interesting, you can go a whole day just talking to them. I wonder if this is because what are say is new to you or it's just that your focus is fixed on them.
After years of being with them, we get comfortable and relax, trust me that's the last thing I wanted to do (taking things easy). We lose focus, it's not like we don't love them, we still love their company and we still love talking to them. Just we don't think they are going to go anywhere and say things like "baby I'm sleepy, lets talk about this later ok ?". Right after we say that, something interesting happens. Lets say you hear a couple of people fighting outside your apartment balcony, this wakes you up and suddenly you're not going to sleep =.=". Honestly guys, when did some random people fight become more important that what your gf's got to say? @.@ WHEN?!
Girlfriend gets says, "yes, honey I am already boring to you" and you say "huh?, what happened baby?". She says "I thought you were sleepy, What are you doing at the balcony?". Then the world crashes on your head, you don't know what the hell just happened. You think and think and you have no explanation, you come up with excuses but no matter what you come up with one thing still shines clear. The random fight was more interesting to you, but this wasn't like that before. After that, your gf tries to keep things simple, minimal talk, minimal contact. A couple of days later, you realize there is something missing in your life.
You miss your girlfriend, you miss her little talks and miss her touch and you miss her just being around you. And you say to yourself "You don't realize what you have until you lose it". This proves one thing though, I can't live without my girlfriend and my life is empty without her. Yet again I haven't swayed too far and I still know my way back. Next time, when I'm sleepy, I'm GOING TO BED!! Nothing is more important than my baby. Except when i can't help it. I love her with everything I have.
So, guys it's been awhile since i posted and finally I'm adding pics on my blog. Enjoy your read and take care of those you love. Never lose them unless things are not in your hand.
Than when I open my eyes, I realize I'm alone on this long long highway and I've lost the things that are important to me. I have to be thankful for one thing, I've never gone so far from those things and I always remember the way back. Then I tell my self, "You're a fool Kanaghavel" you just wasted 20 miles on your mileage and life is not like a car, you can't refuel it. Only god know how many miles I am given.
People get comfortable with what they have and don't really think of the ones they love sometimes. When we first meet our partners, everything they say is a revelation and everything is interesting, you can go a whole day just talking to them. I wonder if this is because what are say is new to you or it's just that your focus is fixed on them.
After years of being with them, we get comfortable and relax, trust me that's the last thing I wanted to do (taking things easy). We lose focus, it's not like we don't love them, we still love their company and we still love talking to them. Just we don't think they are going to go anywhere and say things like "baby I'm sleepy, lets talk about this later ok ?". Right after we say that, something interesting happens. Lets say you hear a couple of people fighting outside your apartment balcony, this wakes you up and suddenly you're not going to sleep =.=". Honestly guys, when did some random people fight become more important that what your gf's got to say? @.@ WHEN?!
Girlfriend gets says, "yes, honey I am already boring to you" and you say "huh?, what happened baby?". She says "I thought you were sleepy, What are you doing at the balcony?". Then the world crashes on your head, you don't know what the hell just happened. You think and think and you have no explanation, you come up with excuses but no matter what you come up with one thing still shines clear. The random fight was more interesting to you, but this wasn't like that before. After that, your gf tries to keep things simple, minimal talk, minimal contact. A couple of days later, you realize there is something missing in your life.
You miss your girlfriend, you miss her little talks and miss her touch and you miss her just being around you. And you say to yourself "You don't realize what you have until you lose it". This proves one thing though, I can't live without my girlfriend and my life is empty without her. Yet again I haven't swayed too far and I still know my way back. Next time, when I'm sleepy, I'm GOING TO BED!! Nothing is more important than my baby. Except when i can't help it. I love her with everything I have.
So, guys it's been awhile since i posted and finally I'm adding pics on my blog. Enjoy your read and take care of those you love. Never lose them unless things are not in your hand.
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